Travel

The Best Weekend!

Friday:

Friday afternoon, J and I packed up our gear and Laylz into the Honda and drove off to explore the southern coast of North Carolina. THe weather was rainy and windy and we hit rush hour traffic through downtown Raleigh and Garner. Even though we started out in high spirits, it soon lagged by the time we were done fighting traffic and out of the city. We decided to stop at a gas station and get a drink and get some caffeine. We took an exit for Newton’s Grove and the sign by the off ramp said the station was .5 miles away. We kept driving, only to discover we were in the middle of a hickville swamp. The “town” was basically a roundabout and half the stores were boarded up with various broken machines and used furniture on their porch. The Hardees in town took atleast 15 mins to get us our order of 3 piece chicken strips and 2 cokes.

Anyway, after a good buzz from the caffeine we continued on our way to Wilmington North Carolina. We got into Wilmington around 7ish and found our hotel pretty easily, since it was on the main road. It was already dark and raining consistently and when we had finally settled into the hotel room, we worried about what we would do with Layla that night. The plan was to have an old fashioned night out on town – Dinner and then going bar hopping and getting roaring drunk in Wilmington’s historic riverwalk. Since we didn’t know how Layla would do with being left alone in an unfamiliar hotel room for that long we decided to go to dinner at a restaurant closeby and comeback and check on her progress. We went to dinner to Sticky Fingers a restaurant specializing in southern style ribs. I am not a big ribs person,but it seemed to fit the mood and locale. We ordered a pitcher of Bud , some spinach dip and decided to share their sampler platter. The Sampler platter had Memphis Dry, Memphis Wet , Carolina Sweet and Habanero Hot. I think my favorites were Memphis dry and Habanero Hot.

After dinner, we checked up on Layla and headed to historic downtown wilmington, it was raining even harder now, so we took the first available parking spot and decided to just find one great bar and hang out there all night instead of running around in the rain. We went to Rum Runners, a tropical themed duelling piano bar and did exactly what we had planned- Got really drunk!! The performers were funny and J and I had fun watching the other drunk people in the bar. We did manage to make it back to the hotel without too much drama.

Saturday:

I was woken up by a knock on the door saying housekeeping and was surprised and went back right back to sleep, thinking it was some kind of mistake, especially since the clock in the room said 9:30 and we didn’t have to check out till 11. I was woken up again by the phone ringing, where front desk very politely that I needed to check out by 12:00 if i didn’t want to pay for another night. Confused and groggy ,I asked him what time it was , and he replied, 11:40. I guess there had been a power outtage the night before and the clock had slowed down, because the clock in the room said 10:45. Anyway we hurried and packed and managed to finally get our act together and check out of the room. Since it was already noon , we decided to grab some fast food for lunch and buy some necessities at target and headed out for Carolina Beach which is 30 mins from Wilmington. We had hoped to hang around wilmington and explore Wrightsville Beach (5 mins from wilmington) in the morning, but those plans were scrapped.

The drive to Carolina Beach was really pleasant and relaxed and we got to drive over the intercoastal waterway for a couple of minutes before we made it to Carolina Beach. We found Carolina Beach state park and picked out a camping site and decided to not waste anymore of the afternoon and go straight to the Beach. It was a great afternoon, the only drawback was that it was really windy and we kept getting pelted by sand, so we decided to walk inside of town instead of on the beach. We explored the cute little beach town and did a little shopping in the surf shops. We also got some awesome Pizza at Michelangelos pizza parlour and homemade tiramisu.

We headed back to the campground and found out that the gates of the campground closed at 8:00 so we couldn’t really go to the cute bars in town or eat out, since it was 6:00 and we were really full from Pizza. We decided we would just make a fire and cook some simple Brats and drink beer around our fire. We bought firewood at the marina and headed to food lion to get supplies. Right before entering Food Lion we could smell delicious chinese food so, we did a last minute change of plans and ate at the chinese restaurant. After buying beer, we headed back to the campsite to settle in for the night and get our fire going,but we were in for a nasty surprise. J and I have both gone camping since we were itty bitty kids and know how to make fires and it took us three tries and loads of kindling and we still couldn’t get the fire going. The problem we discovered on our third and final try was the logs were wet and every time we would get it going, all this water would seep out of the logs and put out the fire. We gave up in disgust and took a walk around the campground and looked at the stars and just went to bed. We sure were glad we had decided to go with chinese food, otherwise we would have had to go to bed hungry.

Sunday:

Sunday morning we were able to get our lazy asses out of bed around 9:30, but since it was daylight savings time, it was already 10:30. We hung around the campsite for a while and packed up all our belongings and headed to Kure Beach. Kure Beach is less popular than Carolina Beach and more locals go there. We found free parking and the Beach was almost deserted, so it was like having our own private beach. After playing around for a while we got hungry and decided to get lunch. While we were wondering which restaurant to go to, a guy going to the Old Pier House Restaurant walked by and commented that “They have good food in there”. So we decided to give it a try. It was a tiny little room and it was packed!!! And since most people in there knew each other we figured they were locals. We ordered thier variety platter, which had Flounder, Fried Shrimp, Clam Strips and Deviled Crabs.It also came with Fries , Hush Puppies and Coleslaw. I think we finished everything other than the hush puppies. Since we were so full, we decided to take a little walk on the pier and walk off all that delicious food.

Afterwards, we headed back to the State Park and decided to the Venus Fly Trap Trail. Carnivorous plants are the specialty of the park, because of the dry soil plants have to supplement their nutrition with insects. Most of the plants weren’t in bloom yet, so we walked around looking for Venus Fly Trap. But we couldn’t see any till a nice old couple showed some to us. We kept looking to find some of our own, but we didn’t see anymore. It was only 3:00 and we didn’t feel like going home yet. So we drove to the Marina and walked along the Sugarloaf Trail, which follows the banks of the Cape Fear River and the Wetlands around it. It was absolutel beautiful. Finally around 4:15 we called it good and decided to head home.

It was a really great vacation. I think Kure Beach is one of my favorite places , and J and I are planning to go back in a month and camp again. I think Kure Beach is going to be our little spot where we keep exploring it, till we know every thing about it.

Kure Beach Rules!!!

Fashion, Life

ANTM Update….

I feel like I should write about Terri Shiavo’s death, since she died this morning. But its seems like everyone is writing about that poor woman and there really isn’t that much left to say. Maybe I’m just desensitized, but I think maybe this is the best for everyone involved.

In my opinion last night was one of the better ANTM episodes. The photo shoot was really interesting and the house-michelle drama was really interesting. Like one of my good friend commented “Flesh eating bacteria on a bisexual model’s face, Reality TV can’t get much better than that.” And she is right, getting a whole bunch of pretty girls to freak out about flesh eating bacteria was awesome!!! I especially liked Lluvy’s little tics, that was really funny! Also I don’t get the Tyra one on one’s , its not like if a girl really tells Tyra her problems, Tyra will feel sorry for her and let her win. If it was me, I would be very guarded and say cliched things like “I’m so happy to be here” and “Oh my gosh, this is so challenging and it is making me a better person.” And after Michelle told Tyra about her skin problems, why didn’t “Saintly Tyra” get her to a dermatologist immediately. I think Tyra Banks is the biggest hindrance to her show. I find her the worst judge on the panel too.

Anyway, here is the list o’ faves. From most to least…

1) Brittany: She definitely rocked her photo and the judges seemed to be mostly impresed with how much she has taken their criticism to heart and improved. I just hope she stops wearing the same outfit to every judging- black tank/tee and denim mini.

2) Naima: Naima is still the coolest girl by far. But thats two below average photos are making the judges notice. Also since the other girls are getting more competitive , she will have to push a little harder to stay out of the bottom two. Unless something drastic happens, I still think she will be around for a while.

3)Kahlen: She once again had a great pic. She seems nice and is giving consistent pics. In her photo she really did look ethereal. Also she is starting to look more put together outside the photo shoots as well.

4) Keenyah: Whats with the K’s? Once again the judges are super impressed with her and her photo was really cool. Also it was pretty smooth how she pulled of wearing the ANTM tank top. Maybe she learned for Jennipher from last season, its never good to flash your butt at the judges.

5) Becky: She did have a good picture and her facial expressions were funny during the bacteria freak out. The judges are also pretty impressed with her.

6) Tatiana: Her pic was only okay! But I think its a fluke and I think she will improve. She seems pretty competitive and some of hte judges still really likes her.

7) Christina: Like Janice Dickinson said ” I am bored” Blah pic

8) Tiffany: It was a decent pic! but nothing special. She wasn’t that dramatic this weekend and her Grandma was so funny over the phone.

9) Lluvy: Lame pic! but i like her personality and she is really funny. Maybe she will improve.

10) Michelle: She needs to go home. I am done writing about her . From now on, every week she is on the episode, I will just write”She needs to go home” Because every one knows why.

Noelle: Eliminated, I would have preferred Michelle over Noelle, but she was not my favorite and the judges were right, she wasn’t very model- like.And I didn’t think her picture was that great. She will probably be happy with her son anyway.

Next week looks like it will be a good episode. Only thing is it shows Brittany partying a lot. Be careful Brittany , i hope you don’t get eliminated because you mooned someone!!!!

Thursday

1 Starbucks Frappucinno
2 soft steak tacos
1 fiesta potato cup

Love

Take It!

Piece of My Heart Lyrics
Artist: Janis Joplin
Album: Joplin in Concert

Didn’t I make you feel like you were the only man, yeah,
An’ didn’t I give you nearly everything that a woman possibly can ?
Honey, you know I did!
And each time I tell myself that I, well I’ve just had enough,
But I’m gonna show you, baby, that a woman can be tough

I said come on, come on, come on, come on and take it,
Take another little piece of my heart now, baby,
Break another little bit of my heart now, darling, yeah.
Hey! Have another little piece of my heart now, baby, yeah.
You know you got it if it makes you feel good,
Oh yes indeed.All right!

You’re out on the street looking good, honey,
Deep down in your heart I said you know that it ain’t right,
Never never never never never never hear me when I cry at night.
Honey, I cry all the time!
And each time I tell myself that I, well I can’t stand the pain,
But when you hold me in your arms, I’ll sing it once again.

I’ll say come on, come on, come on, come on and take it!
Take another little piece of my heart now, baby.
Break another little bit of my heart now, darling, yeah,
Have another little piece of my heart now, baby, yeah.
You know you got it, child, if it makes you feel good hey!

Now all right!

How did we end up so desperate? Maybe we just know better and we hurl ourselves down a path that we can see has collapsed, but we keep wanting. We want to believe in something.

I only knew her as a myth ,but now I’m learning her words and her music.

Janis Rules!!!

Food and Drinks, Life

Catch Up!!

It was nice to take a break from everything for 3 days, even this blog! Its been a good 3 day weekend, nice and relaxing with good doses of activity and drama. I was typing this great entry last night , but the computer ate and I don’t really feel like typing it all out again. Lazy, I know!

New Acquisitions for the weekend-

Crinkly Green Cami
Lime Green Cotton western shirt
Black Cami
Pink Floral Satin Nightie

Couldn’t find pics easily…too lazy to really hunt.

Good News- J, Layla and I are going to Wilmington and Wrightsville Beach next weekend. Super psyched about it!

Friday

1 biscuit dipped in gravy
Chips and Salsa
6″ Italian BMT( Subway)
1 bag baked lays
2 cups soda
1 cosmic cantina burrito
Way too much alcohol and other toxic substances

Saturday

1/2 Chicken Club sandwich
Fries w/ ranch
Sweet tea
1/2 lb beef and potato burrito- Taco bell
1 steak taco supreme

Sunday

Chinese Buffet
1 Singapore Sling
4 beers

Monday
1 rice krispy treat
1 pack gummy lifesavers
1/2 Rockslide Foccacia Sancwich
1 cup potato soup w/ bacon and cheese
1.5 serving of pasta, veggies and chicken
2 red peeps

Life

ANTM Update…Another of my Top 5 goes home

My shoulder hurts so bad from kickboxing last night…….AAAAAAAAAAA!!! Also I absolutely can’t think of my instructor as hot anymore!!! Even though he is still ambigiously gay, I think he just crossed over more into the gay territory. No 6’+ man should ever , i mean under no cirmustances, wear short shorts!!!! It was terrible, I couldn’t concentrate on my moves, cuz I wanted to giggle everytime I saw his butt!!!! Ha ha ha

ANTM was pretty good last night. I am really upset that they cut Brandy, cuz I don’t think she was that much bitchier than the other girls and I really liked her bone structure and she took great photographs, even when she looked pissed. The good thing about this episode was that I felt that they showed a good balance of photo shoots and just the interaction between the girls. They had 2 photo shoots, one was while playing tennis and the other was where they had to be signs of the zodiac. The latter was kinda hit or miss with me, cuz some the girls had awesome outfits and hair and some of them had ugly red claws !!!

Anyway here is the list, from most fave to least fave

Naima: She is still at the top for how cool she looks. I was a little surprised at the picture, cuz it was a lame pose

Brittany: Yaaay!!! Brittany is back!!!! I think the judges are also really impressed with her improvement and her picture was very good in capturing the “mood” of sagittarius

Kahlen: Her aries was really good. Also I think she is fairly consistent in taking good pics. Because of her confidence issues, she reminds me a little of Shandi, kinda shy and silly and goofy

Keenyah: Well maybe I was wrong last week and her photos weren’t a fluke!!! I liked her pic this on this shoot and the judges liked it too. I just don’t get her weird hairdos during the confessionals

Tatiana: She got good feedback again from the judges and had a decent pic. Also got more air time, which probably indicates she will be around for a while

Christina: Good Pic! No airtime, so hard to tell as usual. She did get some flak from Beverly Johnson about her lips and how she should get them from the dermatologist’s office, which was pretty funny.

Becky: Didn’t get a lot of air time this episode, since she took up a fair amount last week. Her picture was good but I think the judges are not that impressed with her.

Tiffany: She is starting to get on my nerves, because she constantly talks about her “transformation” sort of like Amanda who would not shut up about her “blindness”. Also the whole getting drunk and throwing up in the restaurant was gross. But she is improving as a model. Seems like Tyra has to fight to keep her from the bottom two though

Lluvy: Lame pic! I dont’ think she is that cute, but pleasant.

Noelle: I think she and Michelle should have been the bottom two. She hasn’t really improved her coctail waitress look and it doesnt’ look like she is trying too hard. And her Leo pic was awful, she looked like a declawed cat , instead of a lion! Maybe I am pissed of , kinda like Jay Manuel, cuz I am a leo too.

Michelle: Why is she still on this show??? Her pic was okay! She looks like a man and walks like a man and even one of the judges said she looks like Jay Leno! Also next week she supposedly gets a bacterial outbreak on her face…which looks so gross!!! If she ends up winning this competition , I am going to stop watching this show!

Brandy: Eliminated. I still don’t think she should have gone. Besides Tyra , its not America’s next sweetheart, its america’s next top model. I don’t think Tyra Banks would have been hired to be a model if she was a super sweet but took awful pictures. I can see how personality would come into play, if all things were equal, but they were not equal. All of Brandy’s pics looked great and she has real model potential because she looks so striking! And Lluvy only had one good pic and she looks more like a cute and fun girl next door , not model.

Hope the next episode is good! I am super annoyed that they haven’t updated the photo gallery at the main site yet.

Its going to new task episode on apprentice and its going to be hard to pick who I’d want to get fired. I guess Stephanie, cuz she is a backbiting snake, but if anyone else got fired, I would be sad:(

Thursday

1 grande iced mocha
1/8th slice of Banana Nut bread( tastes nasty)

Life

Good Old Fashioned Tear Jerkers….why????

I watched Veer-Zaara last night. It was so romantic and so sad that when I went to bed, I lay there and cried for an hour. J thought I had lost my mind. (Will write more on feelings and plot etc later tonight)

My poor little puppy dog is getting spayed today! I am so worried she is going to be her natural hyper self and tear all her stitches post surgery. Also I hope she is not in too much post op pain after surgery and that they giver her some pain killers!!!

Finally feeling a little more motivated about work. ( Getting new clients etc.)

Tuesday
3/4 cup pasta salad ( brunch)
2 chicken strips w/ ranch and buffalo sauce
handfull of fries
2 teaspoons salsa
cup of coffee w/ fatty creamer and 2 splendas

Food and Drinks, Friends, Life, shopping

Furniture Dates

Buying and Moving Furniture was a huge part of my weekend. Who knew transporting an entertainment center on top of a subaru would be so nerve wracking…..he he he. Also, I have added another thing to my list of stuff I have done- Rented a Uhaul. For some odd reason I am very proud of myself. I didn’t drive it, J did but hey it was out out under my name. I guess I am excited cuz I have never rented a car before.

Weird loophole- you can rent a u haul van and whether you are 25 or under makes absolutely no difference, but while renting a ford focus its a big deal. Why?

Saturday, when we rented the U-haul we drove to Efland NC to pick up the dresser and the dining table.Efland NC is about 25 mins from Durham , so basically out in the country . And although J and I were fighting on the whole drive there, once we pulled into the country road, we immediately started chatting about how fun it would be to live in the country. Our sellers had this cute house in a little lot with a stream on their backyard and lots of forests and meadows around. It look very picturesque!

So now…day dreaming about Country Living. I am so fickle!

Went and met the girl from Craigslist. I thought it went well and maybe we’ll be friends. I always wonder if other people think I’m a loud mouth cuz I do talk a loth. So now, I don’t know if there is some kind of etiquette, where I wait 3 days to get back to her or should i send her a follow up email today. Foreign Territory. What would Rob Gordon do?

Also there is CHG, I don’t understand that girl. She is incapable of normal girly contact. So formal. Its impossible to get her to open up. Maybe its me?

Saturday
1 Egg McMuffin
1 hash brown
1 gallon(exagerration) sweet tea
1 falafel wrap w/ veggies and lemon dressing
1 packet chips
1 wedge pickle
1/3 lb pasta salad

Sunday
1 veggie omlette with cheese
home fries
2 glasses sweet tea
2 slices toast
1/2 grilled greek grilled cheese pita
1/2 cup pasta salad
1/2 cup each mango and lime sorbetto
1 hamburger
fries
2 coronas

Monday
1 bagel with egg,bacon and cheese
Greek Salad w/ olive and bleu cheese dressing
2 cheese enchiladas w/ sourcream(very fatty)
1/2 cut beans w/ cheese
tortilla chips

Life, shopping

Bare necessities

Yaaaaaaay!!!! All my furniture troubles might be solved for good this weekend. I am going to go pick up a dining table- we actually found a metal/glass table w/ 4 chairs for $100 and also a dresser for $55 . J is not so excited about the dresser, but I am so excited to finally put all my underwear in a drawers instead of little shelves in our closet.

Also we might be able to pick up an entertainmetn center for $14 tonight. That would solve all our immediate furniture needs. Also we might be able to keep Layla in the living room since the entertaiment center will be a deterrent in chewing wires. Hopefully the guy doesn’t change his mind on the price.

I don’t have anything planned for the weekend other than maybe watching the aviator ( i’m being overly optimistic) and meeting a girl for coffee on sunday.

Last night we just hung around the house and enjoyed not being sick. Also we actually managed to tire out the laylz, it was amazing , she was ready to go to bed before us. Overall very pleasant thursday!

Friday

1 strawberry yogurt( lite)
1/2 turkey sandwich (with fatty dressing)
1 bowl potato and bacon soup
1 beer
1 slice pizza