Category: Life

Life Plods on! I have had a ton of things I’ve wanted to post lately, but they are going to have to be broken into smaller posts, otherwise, it will be one ginormous post!

Overall, life is good, J scheduled his surgery for the 30th or 28th of next month, so thats one thing planned. The end of the year, stress persists, as in, what am i going to do about school/work/job, but its a good kind of stress, I feel proactive, simply by doing paperwork.

Props to my friend JJ‘s super awesome blog!

So, they called from the college yesterday to tell me that I can be eligible for Financial Aid in the spring!!!! Yaaaay!!!! Except for the fact that I need to get my transcripts and that is taking up more time and energy than required.

J is a little nervous about impending changes, and there will be quite a few! Infact, I am pretty nervous myself.Everything seems up in the air and seems poised to change: job, house, life, etc…..Hopefully it will be for the better.

Other than that, life is going well, J and I are chill, he is going to schedule his surgery in November, but once again, like every other detail in our life, its up in the air.

I have noticed my brushing,no rinsing habits are influenced by my boyfriends. Weird! What is my style? Runaway Bride style question of the day. hmmmmm.

Name: Girlie Girl
Birthdate: 08/05/81
Birthplace: Calcutta
Current Location: Durham NC
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Black
Height: all of 5’2
Piercings: 1 in each ear, want a nose piercing
Tatoos: negative
Boyfriend/Girlfriend: yes, 1 b.f
Overused Phrase: Huh?/! and nice!!!
FAVORITES
Food: Currently Thai Green Curry
Candy: Chocolate M&M’s, Reese’s Pieces
Number: 5, 8, or 58, never 85, i hate 85
Color: Yellow
Animal: Dogs
Drink: Water, and Skinny Iced Mocha’s
Alcohol Drink: Jack and Coke, Tequila, Vodka Cran.
Bagel: Asiago, with light veggie cream cheese, toasted of course
Letter: N
Body Part on Opposite sex: Shoulders, Chest
This or That
Pepsi or Coke: Pepsi
McDonalds or BurgerKing: The Micky D’s
Strawberry or Watermelon: Watermelon
Hot tea or Ice tea: Iced Tea
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate
Hot Chocolate or Coffee: Coffee
Kiss or Hug: Other than really close friends, J, and family, I really prefer not touching people
Dog or Cat: Dog
Rap or Punk: Punk
Summer or Winter: Summer
Scary Movies or Funny Movies: Scary
Love or Money: Love
YOUR…
Bedtime: 11 or later on weeknights, 4:30 or later weekends
Most Missed Memory: Its a blur?????
Best phyiscal feature:Lips
First Thought Waking Up: God, its morning, already, F#$#$%W%$
Goal for this year: Get skinnier, make more money, go back to school
Best Friends: KD,MS, J, Jess
Weakness: alcohol, sex, money, chocolate, clothes
Fears: That everything can disappear in a flash
Heritage:Indian
Longest relationship: Almost 3 years , still going
HAVE YOU…
Ever Drank: Ha Ha
Ever Smoked: Ha Ha
Pot: HA Ha
Ever been Drunk: Ha ha
Ever been beaten up: negative
Ever beaten someone up: nope
Ever Shoplifted: nope
Ever Skinny Dipped: nope
Ever Kissed Opposite sex: yes! a lot?
Been Dumped Lately: not recently
IN A GUY/GIRL
Favorite Eye Color: brown/green
Favorite Hair Color: brown
Short or Long: medium
Height: tall
Style: skaters
Looks or Personality: personality
Hot or Cute: cute
Muscular or Really Skinny: As long as they are not skinnier than me
RANDOMS
Number of Regrets in the Past: Wow! so many little ones, a few big ones
What country do you want to Visit: France, Thailand, Cambodia
How do you want to Die: W/out pain
Been to the Mall Lately: Not since Africa
Do you like Thunderstorms: love them!
Get along with your Parents: Depends on the day
Health Freak: Trying to be one
Do you think your Attractive: On good days
Believe in Yourself: On ” I hate the world” days
Want to go to College: Want to find my way back
Do you Smoke: Sometimes
Do you Drink: yup
Shower Daily: Almost
Been in Love: Oh yeah!
Do you Sing: No thanks
Want to get Married: Sure
Do you want Children: Someday
Have your future kids names planned out: yes:S

Tired!

Sometimes my coworkers drive up the wall simply by existing. Watched a lot of TV yesterday, which brings me to…..

Haters want to hate
Lovers want to love
But I don’t want
none of the above

– Dave Chappelle as R.Kelly

Oh Dave, I miss, stop being nervous and broken down and come back to TV already. Comedy Central and your fans miss you.

Realization brought on by watching clips of Adam Corrolla’s new show on CC. Yeeeeeeech!!!!

Although, I’m digging Showbiz news with David Spade. I heart short, bitchy ex SNL cast members. I am looking at you too Kattan.

Don’t have a lot to write about at present. Feeling generally lethargic, reasons unknown.

J is being a major grouch, I guess having serious financial issues, project due at the end of the week, and a bad leg would probably bring out the bitch in me as well…but still, he really is being a pain in the ass. I have kinda played along and been aloof as well, but will try to be nice.

I think I might plan a little picnic getaway to celebrate his presentation, and maybe that will cheer him up.

Deciding if I should start a recipe blog, but I have issues, with not being able to sort things on blogger, must look into typepad, or word pad or xanga or the other ones. I heart blogs.

Have lost 5lbs. So I celebrated this weekend by gorging on chips and dip. Way to go me.

So I have decided, its time to seriously start exploring options for going back to school! I am a little scared, I won’t get enough financial aid, but we’ll see how everything goes. I’m just mentioning this now, and I’m sure I’ll post more about it as plans/ideas get more solidified.

The week hasn’t been terrible. Tuesday I went to dinner w/ J’s coworkers and work friend. THe restaurant was horribly over priced, and the food was really only average, but the people were nice, and over all a decent time was had by all. J and I did get into a minor squabble about when to leave, but nothing major. I am still a little insecure about 2 chicks from his work, but I’m trying to move on ,and get over my insecurites and not put any more ideas in his head (bad me, especially last night). But in all reality nothing too major. I hope, I refuse to fuel my insecurities by obsessing about them here. Writing something down is almost making it permanent, and honestly thats the last thing i need.

In other news, I don’t know how feasible India is going to be for both J and me, since his knee has to be operated upon and will cost quite a bit, even after insurance. Everything is so frustrating………grrrrrr…..I asked J, when does it all end and he said, ” when we die” and of course this led to a very depressing conversation in bed. GAWD, I have a knack for these things.

Hung out with NG last night, and it was really fun, now that I feel that boundaries have been established and she is not everywhere I look. We watched ANTM, and I must say, I have high hopes for this season! I do miss Miss Janice Dickinson horribly, and ANTM will never be the same without her. The contestants this season already seem very drama prone and that can only lead to some awesome hall of fame moments. I think for Cycle 5, instead of doing my re caps and lists, I’ll just post a few best moments and best lines.

I am failing miserably at sticking to the following goals

1) prospecting more
2) Eating less
3) Keeping the house in better shape

grrrrrrrrr………

Had a generally pleasant weekend. Went and saw Yo Mama’s big fat booty band at the Pourhouse, it was strictly okay. Got hit on by Mulletman, but my knight in shining armor, Y, came to the rescue and gave him a major dressing down.
We went to IHOP later and met up with a coworker and then I passed out on the way home.

Experimented on saturday. Was not to liking.

Sunday was spent relaxing, cleaning, eating a big dinner and watching cartoons

I am feeling very discontent, therefore , I don’t want to write anything, I just wish things would fall into place. God, I just need a break!