My MOH is now also my officiant. KD is now an official member of the Universalist Life Church and can perform weddings, baptisms etc. So now I can check off Officiant off of my list. I am so excited and grateful that she is going to be the person who marries me and J. Since J and I aren’t religious we felt having someone who is an important part of our lives officially marry us would give weight and meaning to our ceremony. I do believe in community, love, friendship and having KD officiate encompasses all those values.