Last weekend J and I emailed out our Save the Date . After sending it out ,I felt a huge sense of relief and excitement all at the same time. Relief , because we had one thing crossed off our list, Excitement and nervousness because now it seems like the wedding is on for sure. Other people know about it and there is no turning back now. I am happy to say we got mostly positive responses. Maybe some people were offended that it was an email rather than a card, but it made sense for us.